This is a direct dispatch from the Dimana Consciousness and Memory Archives, preserved for its’ cultural, historical and aesthetic significance related to Dimana’s personal trauma and emotional suppression company division.
Certain details such as dates, names and the general chronology of the events transpired are unclear as per the emotional suppressive directive to protect the subconscious’ half-life, a task already strenuous enough due to the amount of tedious emotional expression subjected onto the company in the past few months.
It’s been a tough time for the company’s assets, as reported in the quarterly earnings meeting where the possibility of completely dissolving the entire Dimana was brought up in passing by one of our investors.
Though it has been edited for clarity, the main text remains preserved in its original form – a pure crystalized moment of embarrassment courtesy of the world’s foremost expert on a lifetime of cringing.
10:20 A.M. LOCATION: GUY-DRUMMOND FRENCH PUBLIC ELEMENTARY SCHOOL, SMACK-DAB IN THE MIDDLE OF OUTREMONT, MONTREAL. I THINK IT WAS WINTER. THE SKY WAS VERY WHITE. SO IS THE NEIGHBORHOOD.
So, there is a very interesting part of my life where I thought I had way more power than I actually had. Picture this: I’m in the fourth grade. I just outgrew the pastel pink Minnie Mouse sweater thrifted for me upon our arrival in Quebec and I’m wearing oversized hoodie to school because being a girl is hard, but being a fat girl is unacceptable.
I’m in math class. I’m very tired. For some reason, I just can’t focus on the fascinating subject of numbers being put together in the worst combinations possible and I’m nodding off-
4:25 A.M. LOCATION: MY SHITTY TWO BEDROOM APARTMENT FOUR HOURS BEFORE I HAVE TO BE AT SCHOOL
I’m clearly playing World of Warcraft for at least five hours too long and my parents learned how to cut off the ethernet cord at night in an attempt to stop me from doing this, but I have deftly managed to avoid that problem by just turning it back on while they’re sleeping and the chord had a square tip at the end which had to enter the modem precisely in one direction, so I learned how to do it without looking, which I thought was pretty cool for me to know at that age and actually, if you think abou-
10:25 A.M. BACK TO CLASS
And this is where I realize something’s wrong. The teacher is babbling on and on and I realize entirely too late that there was homework to do for today. I had to do math. At home. Alone. And bring it in for my teacher to check that I did it. Did I do my homework?
5:18 A.M. LOCATION: DESK AND CHAIR FOUND IN SOMEONE’S TRASH PILE ON A SATURDAY MORNING
No, I didn’t
10:28 A.M. HELL ITSELF CAN’T BE THIS COLD
I’ve realized at this point, as my fourth grade teacher who clearly doesn’t get paid enough to care about why I didn’t do my homework ambles her way through the tiny tables to check everyone’s textbooks, that I have no choice but to submit to the mortifying experience of public humiliation or attempt one of the most daring acts of boldness performed by an overweight anxious Bulgarian child trapped in a Canadian province through way of sudden immigration from a country with the GDP of two coins you find at the bottom of your bag after a bad night out.
10:28:50 A.M. “MAY I GO TO THE WASHROOM?”
I stuff my entire fourth grade math textbook under my giant sweatshirt.
10:30 A.M. LOCATION. BATHROOM STALL THAT I WILL LATER REGRET EVER SETTING FOOT IN
So what was the plan here? Let’s recap where we’ve been and where we’re at. Because clearly the plan should have had steps one and two before I decided to absolutely bust into the final step with the gusto of a drunk Scot leaving a bar at high noon. I wasn’t going to figure out the four pages of math problems I had to do in the stall. Who did I even think I was? Nothing ever about me remotely inspired the image of a genius god-child and I certainly wasn’t about to gain some infinite knowledge from the water stains on the corner of the ceiling I stared at as I realized I will have to go back in and face the humiliation of admitting I didn’t do my homework AFTER she sees me pull out the textbook from under my sweatshirt. So how did we get here? And where do we go?
10:31 A.M. LOCATION. THE INSIDE OF MY ENTIRE BRAIN
FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK. FUCK.
Maybe if I just stay here long enough, she’ll forget I’m in her class.
I’m incredibly hard to miss. I’ve played dodgeball.
10:45 A.M. LOCATION. HALLWAY LEADING TO MY FRENCH REVOLUTION STYLE EXECUTION OF MY DIGNITY
So, I’m slowly shuffling back to class, pages half filled with random numbers and some circles around the questions and the diagrams, as if to indicate I spent half a minute trying to decipher the math problem before fully giving myself over to whichever Trickster God is to blame for my indescribable arrogance on display today.
Now, though, years later, I’m just thinking back to that Dimana. To fourth grade awkwardness and her unibrow and her constant lack of sleep due to lack of parental supervision due to lack of money due to an unfair system choking us all…and I think back to her trying to undo the damage of an event that didn’t even happen yet.
I was trying to protect myself from an over-worked middle-aged lady gently getting mad at me for not doing my homework, something that absolutely has no bearing on my life now and wouldn’t have been a big deal if I just accepted responsibility and understood that I wasn’t being shamed for who I was…I just didn’t do the fuckin’ homework.
10:46 A.M. DIMANA’S BACK. LET’S FUCK HER UP FOR A COUPLE OF DECADES.
“Show me your textbook. I want to check your homework.”
“Uh yeah, sure, let me just sit down…”
“Yep. Just. Gonna…”
“Did you bring your textbook to the washroom?”
10:46:20 A.M. LOCATION. DENIAL.
10:47 A.M. LOCATION. THE INTROSPECTIVE CORNER
She didn’t like the answer. Maybe it’s because I was lying to her face. It did seem kind of rude to just do that when she was right, and I was wrong. But I don’t have a good history with that. So I just kept going with it
Yeah, she chewed me out. I deserved it. And I don’t really remember what the end of that whole ordeal was, huh. I guess this is kind of anti-climactic for us both.
I doubt the memory was that great if I didn’t hold on to it as strongly as I did the rest. In many ways, me feeling like I had the skill and confidence to pull that scheme off on that snowy (?) day in fourth grade makes me envy my younger self. What propelled me into this clearly idiotic experience? And why do I so vividly remember it today?
In a very broad sense, what happened that day informs a lot about my behavior now and it doesn’t make me sad or angry or even happy, it just is. I don’t have a lot of experiences in my life where I can safely say I just accepted them as they are.
There’s a lot to dissect about the roots of my anxiety and fear, especially when it comes to feeling embarrassed about existing the way I do without the additives of self-deprecation or beating someone else to the punch by constantly calling myself a dumb idiot moron dumbass before they can. But, this fourth grade Dimana, this young and clueless girl who wished nothing but a painless journey through grade school so she can get to the fun part in high school where she learns to hate herself in a visceral way…she had a spark of spectacle in her. Who cares if it was fueled by anxiety and fear, some of the best comedies live and breathe by those metrics.
She knew someone was watching. And secretly, if I could be candid, you know, because it is my memory…I think she knew stuffing that textbook into her borrowed sweatshirt would end badly and she did it anyway. Sometimes, the spectacle isn’t for the crowd. It’s just for me, baby.
And I fuckin’ loved it.
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